One of the things fresh couples in a relationship think is they can never stay apart from each that and not being able to survive without the other. Why do they say this?, Cos of the strong wave of feelings that clouds their thoughts and makes them allow their heart to speak. Honestly, there’s nothing as sweet as being new in a relationship cos that’s when everything seems as though your living on top of everyone with life giving you it’s sweetest. But after a couple of weeks perhaps months that’s when everything begins to go hay wired coupled up with misunderstandings, mistakes, jealousy, lack of attention and lack of care. With all this booming up in a fresh relationship, quarrels kicks in. But know this, without quarrels in a relationship, your just fooling each other cos we human beings are different set of beings with different concepts and different behaviour, so at some point those inner hidden annoying characters begins to show face, which maybe unpleasant in the sight of the other, which results to quarrels. One fact about quarrels in a relationship is, it helps bonds a relationship tighter and makes bring up the idea of missing the other so much.
But funny enough, no matter the promises or the future ideas proposed by any of the couples in a relationship, most times, they’re all in vain which later becomes a point of laughter later in future. ” I won’t ever let you go, I will literally die without you in my life, I will never give up on this relationship “, but few months or years later, they’re always the ones that breaks up the relationship. To some people, they say, teenage relationships is for fun and used in passing time, cos at that point in your life, your just trying to build yourself and know yourself better so that later in future when you get married, you will know exactly how to handle your man or woman.
Signs of breakups are always there, perhaps the other partner begins to loose interest or gets tired of the other in his or her life. When this begins to happen, he stops calling, he stops texting, he brings up an altitude, the vibe he had with you when the relationship started changes automatically, not just he but most times the women too. And then, one day he or she calls you saying, ” whatever shit you guys have is completely over, that his breaking up with you for good. “, Hurts right?, But yeah, the other partner gets heart broken and cries out the tears from his tears, it would literally seem as though everything is completely not worth it anymore, it would seem as tho, your stuck in a place and can’t breathe, it would seem as though your heart is continually getting stabbed. Take it from a guy who just had breakup that almost destroyed me.
At first, the relationship was the sweetest experience I’ve ever seen, but as time passed on, went to different states, and then she wakes up and says alot of heart breaking words including the ones of getting tired and wanting a breakup. And then it happened.
One thing you must know is that, life doesn’t just end there. Fun fact, it becomes the beginning of a fresh start giving you the ability to reach out to things you haven’t reached out. Gives you the time to become more closer to your friends and your family. It gives you this freedom that you have never experienced for a long time. Life doesn’t end after a break up, but rather it opens up a new chapter in your life. At least you’ve had an experienced in a past relationship, giving you the ability to treat the next girl differently with more love and passion. You may say, ” my heart’s never gonna heal after this “, giving yourself a week will do the trick. It would be as though a great burden has been lifted off your chest.
Break ups sucks, it really does. But one should always get ready for that when it comes.