No one created on earth is created perfect. No matter how beautiful, mannered and how hot and sexy you think you look, there’s always a glitch in your system that brings out the imperfection in you. You may say, ” No one’s as perfect as I am, I’m the best “, well yeah, you might be the best but your always gonna have à flaw to humble you. Imperfection is a beauty that makes each and every one of us unique in some way.
If a guy whose fault or imperfection is always being among the ladies and this guy falls in love with a girl whose bent on never trusting him. She always complains how he spends his time and attention on other girls. She becomes so insecure about his whereabout. And then she decides to go through his chat with one of the girls his close to and boom she sees what’s she’s been expecting which breaks her heart in pieces. Then she walks up to the guy and shouts at him for being a flirt, then she throws the fact about his imperfection on him never going to change his ways. Well, that’s absolutely so wrong, cos in the view of the guy, he tries to change because she’s the only girl his really given his heart to. He stops going after them, he stops approaching them and he decides minding his business and stays alone all by himself. And now, she walks up to him and throws it all back to his face, telling him how selfish and wicked he is. With all this said, the guys heart gets broken even as he tries explaining how innocent he is, but she just waved him off.
When a guy who was tagged a play boy with the ladies before and decides to finally fall in love with a lady and decides to change on your behalf but instead of the lady helping him to grow and change for the better, you keep reminding him how imperfect he was of him being a play boy and stuff like that. It only shows how wicked and inhumane you can really be. Although your doubts will be there, let’s say he stops calling you or stops giving you the attention you needed but fact is that he may not really be cheating on you. But instead of being understandable by approaching him nicely to ask why, you conclude easily that he doesn’t care, he doesn’t give you much attention you deserve, and stuff like that. How do you really think you can possibly survive in a relationship, if you can’t be an understanding personnel.
You complain about the guy your in love with of being imperfect in some ways but have you ever considered how imperfect you really are. We all have our flaws and guess what?, Instead of the guy being so complaint about your flaws, he decides to keep quiet and help you change for the better by being enduring. While on your own path, you decide to always throw all his flaws back to his face, how do you expect him to feel, all you do think, he doesn’t have feelings too?.
The only key for a successful relationship is ” Trust and Patience “. If your willingly to have this, your relationship might be the sweetest you’ve ever seen. Because trust goes in line with patience which gives you the ability of being confident about the guy your in love with and your zeal of being patient with him no matter how long.
We human beings weren’t born perfect, but that doesn’t mean our imperfection is a hindrance to us. We can still become anything we wish to become. You can make the dumbest relationship that sucks alot to become the sweetest thing you’ve come across on earth. It just determines on your persistence and your will to make it work out.
I learnt a great deal about the scorpion. One significant feature about the scorpion I love the most is it’s will to survive and keep moving no matter the obstacles on its way. Although in our lives and in that of couples, there’s gonna be a great deal of obstacles along the line, but it just determines on your will to keep moving and making a change for the better no matter how hard it’s gonna be.
Press on, keep moving and in no time your gonna see the results
Just learn to trust, persist, endure and love with your whole heart. With this qualities, you can accomplish anything you set your mind on.