October 4, 2022


𝕽𝖊𝖑𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖕 𝕬𝖋𝖋𝖆𝖎𝖗𝖘

What is the most unpredicted thing in a relationship?.

Words for thoughts, huh?. But here’s the fact, there are alot of things that comes along with loving someone cos life’s no fairy tale.

A guy who has never been in love before bumps into this lady, he gazed at this beautiful woman as he became speechless and sweaty, his bladder suddenly filled up as he couldn’t understand why his body is acting all strange to him. She smiled and walked passed him as he couldn’t stop staring at her. He met up with some friends but didn’t really give attention to what they were doing as his mind flew toward the image of the woman he met earlier. The more he thought about her, the more crazy he becomes. So came the next day as he walked right into the usual coffee spot and there at a distance came the woman of his dreams. He became so terrified that his legs became numb. She continued walking towards him as he became all sweaty and turned away. “Oh shit”, he exclaimed as he turned away. “Hi”, the voice came up as he felt goosebumps suddenly building up all around him. “Hi” his voice shook as he stared at her. “Damn, how can one be this beautiful with the most perfect body”, he thought as she reached out to her bag and brought out a wallet. “You dropped this”, she finally says. “Whoa, thought I lost this, thank you”, she smiles as she turned to walk away. “Come on dude now’s your perfect chance to make your move”, his inner voice nervously said as he suddenly snapped out and shyly called out to the woman. ” I’m Leo “, he smiled as his legs shook. “Would you love to go on a dinner with me sometime?”, She walked closer as she smiles back “I’m Kareen, and I would love to go on a dinner with you”. She stared at him as she gave him her number and walked away. “She’s so gorgeous”, he says as he sees her walk away.

For a guy who hasn’t been in love before or doesn’t know how it feels should tend to mess up a few things. The first few weeks seemed like the best weeks for him as he couldn’t get her off his mind and so he makes his move on her and expressed his feelings towards her as she gave a positive response by liking him too. They became couples and then the disasters came to play. You know, nature itself has a way of entering our lives to test the love we claim to have for someone. His girlfriend decides to go through his text and finds a chat he had with a girl whose name had a love emoji, and so she became so mad that she shouts at him and hits him out of anger. Leo being all confused couldn’t understand what was actually going on. He became so nervous and scared on loosing her. He never pictured a day where they would actually have to fight and exchange words. But all of a sudden it just pops out. He tries explaining but she just gave him the middle finger as she walked right into the room she stays and packed her things calling the relationship off. He begs her with tears from his eyes for he couldn’t afford loosing her as it will devastate him and leave him traumatized emotionally. “She’s only my cousin, your taking it all wrong, please don’t leave me, I love you so much” he cries out as he hugs her from the back and kneels down holding her down. “Your one of the best things that has happened to me, you make me whole. Please just stay”, she cries out as she turns and hugs him tight. “I’m really sorry for the way I acted up, I’m really am”.

The most unpredicted thing that can ever happen to you with someone you love is actually fighting or quarrelling with them. The romantic moment you have with them might be the best thing that have happened to you but boom the next moment your all in tears with the other one leaving you behind. I mean it sucks right?, But the amazing truth about this is, fighting or quarrelling with someone you love makes you love them the more, it tightens the bond you both share. Let’s bring this fact to your family, you get to fight with your annoying siblings most of the time but you’ve never for one day hated them but instead it makes the family bond strengthens out. Now know this, love ain’t no fairy tale. Love is pain, it’s sacrifice, it’s being able to be with someone at their worst, love is patience, love is romance and love is meant to be forever. You don’t necessarily need to leave a relationship behind because of some fight, cos we’re all human beings with different personalities, you don’t expect someone you love behave like you, so due to that, fighting and quarreling is really inevitable. The love you share is greater and more powerful than any fight you guys have. You just have to hold on strong and tight and let things flow out normally cos obstacles must surely come.

I love you all.